Develop Positive Mindset
#How to manage when someone scolds you?
Do not carry the luggage
Yes friends.
I was travelling to Bangalore. Just opposite my seat, a middle-aged woman and a girl in her 30s were sitting.
As a friendly gesture, I smiled, but the middle-aged woman didn’t even smile.
But another woman gave a warm smile.
I started to read Ponniyan Selvan, but the old lady is scolding her.
When I was about to get down, I asked the other one, How are you tolerating?
The lady said, ” I do not carry the luggage. I act as if I do not have ears. ”
Great philosophy in simple words.
I liked it.
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Simple Tips to make your mind feel good
#compare
Do not compare yourself with others.
Yes. If you compare yourself with others, you cannot reach your goal.
Start to have your own goal.
Aim for that. The purpose of your life is not to compare, which leads to anxiety.
All the fingers on our hand are not equal.
Each finger has its role and contributes to our tasks.
Additionally, please refrain from comparing your life to that of others.
Your life becomes stressful.
Create a goal for yourself. Develop passion and aim to reach that goal.
Note: My neighbour lady asked me after Gukesh’s victory, I am planning to join him in chess class. Her son is studying 9th grade.
I advised the lady to discuss her son’s goals and to avoid making comparisons with others. The lady felt convinced.
#solutions
I got a call from my friend.
After the initial Greetings, my friend Maya told me her problems. I said,” Do not worry, these are passing clouds.
Later, after returning from shopping, I met my next-door neighbour.
She chit-chatted then complained about her ill health, her sons getting average marks.
Blah…. blah..
In the evening, my aunt shared her bad experience with the Doctor.
I got a message about the above complaints.
Everyone is ready to share their problems. They focus on it 100%. They do not want to think about solutions or how to overcome the struggles.
This is a lesson for myself, too.
Yes. Try to think about the solutions.
Plan two or three strategies, and work one by one.
Consider how to adopt and implement the solutions. Life is short; savor the moments.
Share good vibes with your family and friends.
Everyone has problems. It may be different.
Shift your attention towards the solutions and let go of the problems! Embrace a mindset that seeks answers and opportunities, rather than dwelling on challenges.
Bye. Will come soon with another write-up.
Good wishes to all.
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